Monday, July 18, 2011

Should I go back to Egypt?

I lived there for three years and it was amazing. I recently came back for college and for winter break, my father said I can go anywhere around the world. WHERE SHOULD I GO? My sister is getting her Masters in China so maybe I can stay at her apartment? Or should I just go back to Egypt to Party (they have the best parties there). The us is utterly super BORING and the people are so god damn cold. I hate it here now but its a great place to raise a family and receive an education. Should I just travel to a random country to visit by myself? Im a 19 male. and don't worry about the rioting. Its gone. ...almost.

What am I? Gay? Bisexual? Straight? Curious?

Before you label me Gay, let me tell you a little something about myself. I don’t find cute men attractive, I don’t find pretty men attractive, I don’t find gay men attractive. I don’t find long hair men attractive. I find straight handsome men attractive, somebody who’s in their late 30’s to early 40’s looks like a father figure and respect ladies. Some of these handsome men I can think of are George Clooney, Bruce Willis, Greg Kinnear, Hugh Laurie, Jason Statham, Linden Ashby, and Matthew Perry in 2004 from friends. This all started when I was in middle school, specifically the 6th grade. I had a white male teacher who was handsome, and he has a wife. His wife was pretty and during class, I would imagined the handsome teacher having sex with his wife and her giving him oral while he finishes her off. Up until now, I’m 23 years old, I still have these thoughts and feelings. The thing is, I never dream or had thought about having sex with a man. I never even wanna date a man. I always like women. I don’t know if this is a sign of being gay or is just simple “fetish.” I am very confused about my sexual orientation because I can get really turned on by a handsome man more than a pretty woman. Usually when I see a straight handsome man, I would lust about him having sex with a really attractive woman. “But if I find out that man is gay then the fantasy stops.” Am I weird? Would I be labeled as bisexual? Someday, I’m pretty sure I’m going to be marrying a woman when I’m older.

Who are the people spoken of in 2 Peter: 2: 12-15.?

12 reads, But these, as natural brute beasts, made to be taken & destroyed, speak evil of the things that they understand not ; & shall utterly perish in their own corruption.

Help, I really need some advice...?

I am struggling. My entire life I have dealt with symptoms of OCD and ADD. Sometimes I can handle it fine, and sometimes it is overwhelming. My mom told me that she believes I have both, but she refuses to take me to a doctor and be diagnosed. She says she doesn't want to change who I am, but who I am is bothering me. I can barely pay attention to a conversation. Every couple of years I have a few months of hearing things and seeing things that aren't there. At first I thought they were ghosts, but now I'm pretty sure I am just going nuts!! I told my mom and she just denied it and wouldn't talk about it. The doctors spent months taking tests because they found something on a MRI. After months of testing, they just guessed that it was scar tissue. Gah, I keep getting confused and disoriented and I feel like it is just getting worse. Some days I'm fine, and other days are awful. Sometimes I will go from ecstatically happy and hyper to suicidal within a week's time. I also get these days where I just feel so aware of EVERYTHING. Light feels brighter, sounds feel louder, everything that isn't straight stands out, every light and tiny distraction takes my focus. I keep asking for help, but she won't listen. My therapist thought I was bipolar, but once my mom got angry about it, my therapist yelled at ME. I need someone understanding who will just get me through this because the people in my life are ignoring me or making it worse. Please, someone tell me I am not alone and I am not going crazy.

First love ... why does it still hurt so much?

Let him go. He probably stopped texting because he's realized that he can't live that life that is made up in your heads. You broke up. you've moved on. Whatever the reasons for breaking up, they were there. Underneath the surface reasons ,there are hidden reasons in the back of your mind that you won't admit or face. Truths that you don't want to be real. But the truth here is that you've both moved on and its time to face the music. Don't let the past interfere with ur beautiful future. You will always love him, at least part of you will, and that is something you will have to live with. You have to accept this, and accept that what you had is gone, and can never be again. It's a loss of innocence in way. Take a deep breath, and delete his number. If he calls/texts or messages you, send him one thing saying you are moving on with you're life, and although he is a good memory, that is how you want it to remain. Tell him you have found other things in this world that make you happy and you want to embrace them, and that you'd appreciate it if he wouldn't contact you anymore. Best of luck.

Dog was fine one day and died the next?

he went to bed fine woke up the next morning he was wobbly disoriented eyes glazed over weak 4 hours later he died what happened

Could this have been a seizure?

i never experienced anything like before a seizure but everybody is different. i get a wierd feeling in my head and my eyes tighten up. if you experience that again see a neurologist.

Not sure what's wrong with me, help?

The last few days I've been incredibly nauseas dizzy all I want to do is sleep heads been hurting stomach pains hands and feet are numb and I'm disoriented. Any suggestions on what could possibly be wrong?

I have a theory, could I have a high electromagnetic field, causing?

me to be tired, disoriented, and unable to think clearly? I have always been like this, and no one can figure out why. I feel naseous often as well. I know that emf can cause these symptoms...so what do you think?

Would the leftists of today have rolled over for the British in the 1770s?

My goodness, now it's "if you don't like paying more taxes you're not patriotic.". Can you imagine these people back then? "Oh thank you Mr. King, let me write that check for those new taxes you just imposed, after all I want to be patriotic!!"

When will anyone investigate Michelle Obama's no show hospital job in Chicago?

It is amazing and utterly fantastic that no one, not a single reporter or paper as far as I know, has ever asked what Michelle Obama's job was at the Chicago hospital that received millions from bills and monies awarded by Barack Obama's efforts. What were her hours? Who was her supervisor? What exactly were her duties? IT WAS ALL A SCAM!

Why do tax brackets work this way why is it that a Rich/Wealthy person the first few 000 dollars may be taxed?

because the more money you have the less you notice when you are taxed, for instance if tax was $1 and you had $1 million compared to if you only had $10

How painful does this sound to you it's going to be painful for me?

Will imagine this you have an indented chest and the doctors say you need surgery how painful is it getting 2 or 3 metal bars in your chest and trying to flip you chest bone inside out without breaking it

P&S:Have you ever discriminated against someone?

Imagine that a street gang notorious for wearing purple shirts has robbed and murdered several hundred people in your town. If a man wearing a purple shirt just rang your doorbell, would you answer it?

Under what circumstances do you think it makes sense to explain to a child that a friend of theirs has autism?

I am a parent of a high functioning autistic child. There are a few things that should be done in this situation. Your first question. I believe that kids are smart . It is important to educated whenever you can. I love the fact that your child is learning about autism now so when she becomes an adult she wont be ignorant like most adults are. I cant tell you how many people thing they know anything about autism when they have never known or done research on it. My son just turned seven and next school year they are putting him in general ed. last year he was in a regular classroom for about an hour a day. I don't want him to get teased so what Did i invited his regular class and his autistic class. we went all out did a carnival theme with carnival games my family even dressed like clowns. but it gave us a chance to meet some of the typical functioning kids parents. the whole reason we had this huge party was so that next year their wont be Also of questions the kids were afraid to ask and if there were question they would be afraid to ask and at the party there were a lot of questions. I fell good about next year for my son because they have answers. Second thing is were is the austisic child's parent as a parent of autism they need to be taking the opportunity to be correcting their child's behavior when they are saying mean things. I wouldn't correct him yourself cause there are little tricks but that is something the parent needs to be doing. The only way he will learn to be "socially acceptable" is to be taught at the moment. and the more he gets away with it the harder it will be for him to stop

I'm feeling kinda disoriented, a little help plz?

When I'm around a certain person, my self esteem drops into the negatives and my family dosen't help. My brother has autism so I'm not important. How do I change my self esteem level?

Am I having OCD or any other mental illness?

Unfortunately, yes. I'm no doctor, but I have OCD as well. It's not fun. The reason you are constantly washing your hands is because you are getting anxiety. Basically, if you don't wash your hands, you feel like you are going to get germs, so in order to relieve that feeling, you wash your hands, constantly or take too many showers. The reason you are questioning your sexuality is because you are afraid you might be homosexual or that you won't get to date a guy but don't worry about that. The sexuality thought is probably not OCD but it possibly could. The washing hands/shower to much thing is unfortunately OCD.

The bible and homosexuality what do you think?

Hey I'm a 14 year old girl i've been confused about my sexuality for a while utterly confused lol This confusion though has made me interested in the subject. The other day i was talking to my mum about it (not me the whole christain homophobe thing because i was born and raised as a christian) My mum told me that in the bible it apparently says that homosexuality is a sin and that if your gay you dont go to heaven she also told me that she didn't understand at all why it was like that and most certainly didn't agree with it. Today i decided to look up exactly what it said about it. I think its terrible that its considered a "choice" and a "sin" Its not hurting anyone like things like rape and theft and adultery is it? It isn't a choice at all,you either are arent or you dont quite know yet. I dont see how I can still be a christian when it says things like that. Also the things it says about women being lower than men thats complete shizz as well. What are your guys opinions of it all?

How can anyone have tom leykis as a role model?

He says it like it is and doesn't censor or sugar coat it. I admire him greatly and follow a lot of his advice but I wouldn't call him a role model.

Is this a good start for my story? i'm only 13 and i don't write much.?

All eyes turned to me as I rose from my seat. Even the instructor looked shocked. Their eyes followed as I nervously walked towards the wooden door. This has never happened. Well, it has but never for someone like me. It was never to someone so… young. At first I thought it had been a mistake but when the intercom voice repeated I knew it wasn’t. “Annaliese 000 to floor B1” is what it said. It was unbelievable and I thought my mind was playing tricks on me. I had no idea what to expect. Few people go in and none have ever come out. The empty corridor went on and on practically endless but finally I came to the metal doors of the elevator. I pressed the call button and it lit orange. Seconds later I stepped inside and scanned the rows of buttons. Worn out, over-used buttons except for one, B1. I never imagined going down there. Will I be kicked out? Am I going to be promoted? Can an agent my age even be promoted yet? Before I could get too caught up with my scenarios I heard a ‘ding’ as the doors split.